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| Lies about sex |
Lies about sex
We live in a world of decaying morals and often times people always invent lies to give themselves a little more reason to continue in their perverse ways , here are a few of them;
LIE 1
A young man needs to have experience for him to satisfy his future wife:
This is so false, sexual satisfaction to women is like a DNA, it is unique to every woman, what is good for one may be bad for another so it is utterly ridiculous for any one to say that, statistics has shown that men who had marital problems relating to sexual issues have had multiple partners when they were unmarried.
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LIE 2
Sex makes love stronger that is why it is called making love:
Sex makes love stronger that is why it is called making love:
Truth is sex blocks out love, love grows with time and togetherness while sex is a physical ( though having spiritual consequences ) activity, if sex makes love grow then the commercial sex workers shouldn't have any problem falling in love and getting married, a feeling of intimacy is created by a "chemical cocktail" that is produced in the brain during sex and stays with each person for up to 24 hours after intercourse but vanishes quickly away ,statistics have also shown that only 5% of couples who had sex before their marriage ended up getting married while 96% of them later divorced, but 99% of couples who didn't engage in premarital sex stayed married after ten years. Genital sex is an expression of intimacy, not the means to intimacy. True intimacy springs from verbal and emotional communion. True intimacy is built on a commitment to honesty, love and freedom. True intimacy is not primarily a sexual encounter. Intimacy, in fact, has almost nothing to do with our sex organs. A prostitute may expose her body, but her relationships are hardly intimate, premarital sex short circuits the emotional bonding process.
LIE 3 :
Sex is the test of compatibility (test driving):
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| Lies about sex |
Test driving is the result of having multiple partners and it is damaging to a relationship to compare people to each other based on sex and on what scale or criteria are you going to use in comparing. You are simply going to be comparing the previous sex mate with the next and often times if you find something better, you would immediately believe that there is something even better and there would be no commitment., if you have one wife and don’t engage in premarital sex it would be impossible to compare anyone with another and it would reduce the risk of unfaithfulness in marriage.
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