GROWING UP FATHERLESS. Lessons I learnt.

Growing up Fatherless, lessons I learnt.

I knew my father for only 13 years . The first 13 years of my life. I knew him as a troubled man, a man with very short temper and a man who really didn't love anyone or himself. I knew him as a man who you never wanted to cross paths with, because he never forgave a wrong, he never forgot to revenge. My parents had been in a battle for as long as I could remember over what I didn't really know. It always ended with my mum crying and cursing.

Eventually it happened , we came back home and we didn't find dad, he had left and we didn’t know where he was. He didn't want to be found, that was it. Few weeks after that, we realized he had sold the house we lived in and we had to move out within a space of 2 days.We had to live with friends till we found a place of our own. That was 17 years ago. I grew up fatherless, not one day hearing from him or seeing him, it was like he died and the memory of him began to die. Here are lessons I learnt from growing up fatherless.


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1# Having a caring father is a plus but at the end of the  day, only you determine how your life is going to be.

My father was not totally useless, even though he abandoned us and never showed up in our lives. He was useful as a bad example. He was someone I never wanted to be, and so every day I woke up with the renewed zeal to thread a different path. He was a drunk, I never tasted alcohol, he was a wife beater, I never even fought with women, he was temperamental, I went for anger management classes. He  hated spirituality, i found my purpose in the spirit world. A lot of people let their parent’s fault determine their lives. They hate their parents because of their faults instead of battling those exact same faults in themselves. It is a known fact that most kids from dysfunctional homes end up in dysfunctional homes themselves.

2# Faster mental maturity become inevitable.

Being the only male in the house, I had to immediately step up and handle manly duties. I became a husband to my mum, I handled all manly duties around the house. I became mentally more matured than all my friends . I had to learn to make money for myself and my family, to manage the little we had at all times . I made mistakes and learnt from them immediately. I had help from uncles, neighbors and community but at the end of the day. I’m still more mentally matured than most of my mates.

#3 The emptiness never goes away.

There was a construction site down the street when I was about 14 years old. My cousins and I used to go there everyday after school and hang around a crane operator named James. He would talk to us and ask us about school and show an interest in us. He would waddle boats out of pieces of wood and put them in the standing water. When he said this is what he did with his own kids a wave of jealousy went right through my soul. I looked forward to seeing James everyday. One day he told us tomorrow was his last day and he would be leaving. He took us all out for ice cream. I was so emotionally sick I refused to have any. I went back the next day and he was gone. I cried for a week. The emptiness that I felt that day has never gone away. I am married with children who I love very much and have willingly sacrificed for to give them the best life possible, but the emptiness has never subsided. I was given a taste of what having a father would have been like and I know what I missed out on.

#4 Being a man isn't a matter of physical strength

 or how much you can drink and mouth off in the bar, it’s a matter of doing the best you can and treating people with respect, and being there for your family. I learned how to do my own home renos and repairs,  how to cook for the entire family when needed, and how to support my kids in their activities and interests.

#5 There would always be other fathers.

I have come to realize that there would always be fathers, there would always be men at one time or the other that would fill the gap of a father in your life. Nature has it's way of ensuring that, they may not be there for a long time, like a  biological father would but they would be there , when it matters the most. It may be hard when you are young and in your teens but as you grow older, you have to find those fathers yourself, they may be inspirational speakers, television characters, talk show hosts, pastors, blog writers or the old man in the neighborhood. They may not know you directly but their words, their materials, their charisma and character would influence you to be a better person.

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#6 I've learnt to vote for me.

All my life,I've always tried to measure up, to take care of everyone, my siblings, my cousins, because everyone always told me to be a man. I've always put my emotions, hurts and feelings inside while trying to ensure that everyone was okay. It happened with my mum but now, i realized, that i was hurt being in that house, experiencing all that fight, watching my mum get beat down and i can't carry it on with me anymore. I had to open my heart, talk about my pain and HEAL!

Read : Fatherless Sons: Healing the Legacy of Loss

Most importantly I know, I would never allow my kids to grow up fatherless, even if I die, I have friends who could be father figures for my kids.

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BEAUTY-MAKE YOUR BOOBS BIGGER

 Right from the beginning of time, bigger boobs were in and were a mark of beauty. There was never a time in the history of man where it was okay to make boobs small, limp, lifeless or underdeveloped, except in East Africa, where young girl’s boobs are ironed out to make them stay in school and prevent people asking for their hands in marriage. A large portion of a man’s life revolves around boobs which has heightened his love for them. He was breast fed and later on he goes down the throes of passion with the twin towers. Boobs are used to feed our kids. Boobs gives women confidence,and makes clothes and tops fit better. Boobs are one of the major body parts for sexual pleasure. It would just be reasonable to make boobs bigger.

The boob enlargement industry, a faction of the beauty industry is a growing and thriving one and shows no signs of slowing. It is driven by one ultimate goal- to make your boobs bigger. If you intend to make your boobs bigger ,you have to understand that  bigger boobs might in some cases lead to back pain,  ask Dolly parton or Queen Latifah, but that can be overcome by constantly wearing sport bras that help to carry the weight of the boobs, doing yoga , pilates and mountain climber exercises to strengthen your core muscles and running on an inclined thread mill to reduce bounce.Results in boobs enlargement  would also vary based on the amount of fat cells in the boobs which is genetically determined. That said, here are ways in which you can make your boobs bigger.

1. Appearance Management: 

These are simple tricks to make your boob appear bigger. These include wearing the right push up bra , wearing tops with detailed necklines such as flowery designs over the breasts, using boobs pads, wearing a belt and developing a good posture of walking straight, shoulders on your side and your chest out.  Tanning with a good beauty tanning lotion also helps make your boobs appear bigger. Appearance management goes a long way in giving the impression of bigger boobs.

2. Natural Boobs enlargement: 

You can make your boobs bigger naturally by daily massage and constant drinking of milk. Though experts tend to call BS on this method, some women have sworn by it to make their boobs bigger. It is similar to jelqing in male genital enlargement and it’s main focus is to increase stimulation and blood flow to the boobs which can also be achieved during sex.  Foods like tofu , flax seeds and most especially soybean milk  have been known to make your boobs bigger in a sizable proportion if they are taken everyday for a period of six months as they increase the estrogen level in the body significantly. The video below are a duo of flat chested chics fondling each other to make their boobs bigger.

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3. Boobs enlargement creams and pills: 

This is a very tricky way to make your boobs bigger. Although some ingredients in some beauty breast enlargement pills  such as  Zearalenone and doug pai are carcinogenic. Kava , a common ingredient in breast enlargement pills and creams have also be known to cause liver damage. The best option to make your boobs bigger using pills is to buy the herbs severally and use them and see what works. The most common and effective herb in breast enlargement creams and pills is Fenugreek . This ups your estrogen levels and is used in lactating mothers to increase milk production. The use of birth control pills have also been highly credited to make your boobs bigger. They always do, but in most cases not only your boobs, every other place and this might not afford you the ultimate goal-beauty.

4. Exercise:

 Exercise would not make your boobs bigger. They would only improve the chest muscles and make your boobs perkier. Push ups are the best exercises to make your breast perkier and have your nipples front facing even when your boobs eventually sag because they will eventually, it's just a matter of time, exercise might make that time very slow in coming..

5. Breast implants:

 This is the best option for women above 25, as you grow older, your estrogen levels reduce except during pregnancy, the above methods would work better for younger women. The best option for older women who want to increase their sizes like from a disastrous AA to a huge DD is breast implant surgery.

Now you can get those bigger boobs you've always wanted.

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MASTURBATION PLUS EFFECTS

The benefits (plus effects) of Masturbation have been strongly contested over the years , while some have argued that masturbation has negative side effects which far outweighs any benefits (plus effects) it may seemingly have and that those advocating for it’s benefits are just looking for a reason to continue in their perverted ways, others have stated and proved the real benefits of masturbationto include:

1. Anti-depressants: 

Regularly waxing the brass candlestick has been ironically said to be an antidepressant, and boast well being. This is  said to be due to the neurochemicals oxytocin and dopamine  released in the process  which are  body chemicals  responsible for happiness , relaxation and addiction.

2. Better  Sexual Experience: 

Masturbation has been said to boast blood circulation to the genital area and increase sexual response and feeling, leading to better sexual experiences for both male and female. In male, it has been said to help in  achieving harder and stronger erections because it helps to work the pelvic muscles and prevent penile dysfunction. It has also been said to make sexual experience last longer due to delay in climax.

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3. Immunity:

 Masturbation has also been linked to immunity improvement due to the release of an hormone called cortisol, which  is often referred to as the stress hormone which actually plays an important role in regulating the body’s immune system and increase it’s ability to fight diseases.

4. Cancer prevention: 

Based on some study conducted in Australia in 2003 ( 10 years ago now), men who masturbated and had sex regularly had a very reduced risk of developing cancer of the prostrate. Masturbation pumps out toxins in the body from the urogenital tract and this helps to prevent the build up of  cell damaging toxins that can lead to cancer.

5. Prevent infection:

Masturbation has been said to lower the risk of cervical and urinary tract infections. In females,  the orgasms opens the cervix known as tenting, the process of tenting stretches and pulls the mucous within the cervix, allowing for acidity rise  in the cervical fluid. This increases “friendly” bacteria and allows more fluid to move from the cervix into the vagina. When“old” fluid moves from the tented cervix, it not only lubricates the vagina, but also flushes out unfriendly organisms that can cause infections.

There you have it. Now you can simply way your options and Do It Yourself!

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START A BUSINESS: Questions to Ask Yourself

According to Wikipedia, a Business is an “ organization” involved in the trade of goods and services or both to consumers. Anything that involves selling of goods and  rendering service for cash to anybody is a business, although it would be more appropriate to use the business term if the “organization” was registered with appropriate bodies.

This article on starting a business helps to answer the first five questions to ask yourself when  you intend to  start a business and provide accurate answers.

WHY?

Why should you start a business?. According to startups.co.uk, you can start a business so that you become your own boss, run your own life, specialize on interests, open multiple streams of income and maybe make that big dream of yours finally come true. Starting a business might also be the only way you can fulfill your destiny and not have regrets when you are on your death bed or at the pearly white gates.

I need to start a business, so I can finally spend time in the spa

WHAT?

What business exactly are you going to start? In other words what goods or services are you going to offer and  subsequently to whom?  Two main  factors determine what business to start,

1. Your Interests:

 If you intend to start a business that would be around for a long time, the best thing you can do for yourself is to start it, in your area of interest. Those things that come to you naturally.You have to lay back and look inward to discover your interests. Is it sports, Lifestyle, Cuisine  Fashion, Nature or  Music? Let your business be centered around your interest otherwise the business would be a living hell.

2. Your Skills and Expertise:

 Start a business that you are skilled enough  to run. Based on natural skills or acquired skills, your area of business should be something you are good at, for you to break even. No matter how many staff or workers you have, who handle things for you, your skills and expertise and continued development in that area would go a long way in influencing your decisions and making your business thrive. High net worth individuals have been known to go for some conferences, seminars or classes when they want to diversify into other areas of business.

Million dollar Idea: Live Sized Lizard Earrings.

WHERE?

Where to start a business is also a very important question to ask yourself when you finally figure out what business to start. The concept of selling ice to Eskimos is simply preposterous. Your essence in life shouldn't be to supply goods and services to people that don’t need them. Your essence would be to meet a need, provide a needed service and at times needs can be location specific. Some goods or services might best be needed overseas and not in your neighborhood.  Figuring out where exactly your business would thrive also depends on two main factors.

1. Environmental Factors:

 You should start a business in an environment with some considerably favorable factors. Factors would never be 100% favorable but starting a business in a place that makes the business dead on arrival is about a waste of time as not starting a business at all. 

2. Prevailing  Factors: 

Almost like the first, economy, purchasing power of the environment, government regulations, competition should all be considered when starting a business. Here you would need to do market research.

OMG! This is the perfect place to start my business.

WHEN?

This question can be broken down into three.

1. When is take off time?

 When do you   begin a business. The answer to this question is not some vague suggestion like when I get married, or when I get tired of my present job, or when I need money or when the economy improves. It should be down to specifics with particular dates and time, that's the only way you are ever going to start a business.

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2. When  should the operating hours of the business be?

 This is a question to ask yourself, are you going to work on weekends, it is going to be a freelance job that would be based on client timing, would there be holidays, vacations, breaks etc. This question gives you the structure of  how your business would look like.

3. When am I expected to break even or pull the plugs? 

This is a very critical question to ask yourself, what is the expected boom date of the business with consideration for over or underestimation? 

The best time to start a business was 20 years ago in China

HOW?

This question can only be asked after you have successfully provided answers to the previous questions. How are you going to start the business and get it up and running. Are you going to buy a franchise or merge with a company? How are you going to raise capital, establish contacts, develop a customer base and move sales, how would your products look like, what would your values be?. All aspects of branding , business plan and business development falls here and makes this the most important question.

I am going to start an invisible business, and would have a billion  invisible  customers.

To start a business , there are questions to ask yourself such as  why, what, where, when and how you are going to go about it.

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Foods that kill Male Genital Odor

There are two  reasons to eliminate male genital odor.

1. Self confidence-It's just a matter of time before a smelly genital begins to affect your self confidence. Picture yourself in that board meeting when you have to move close to the CEO and tell him something by his ear. You immediately smell the very expensive and classy cologne gently oozing out of his entirety and you immediately get worried what you would retaliate with, a cheap perfume? garllic or milk breath?  or male genital odor? . While the latter is the least likely, you can  bet if it smells , the CEO would know. That's how he got there, he could smell a dead rat from miles away.

2. Pleasureable Intercourse- If it smells down there, you can bet your partner would see your sessions as punishments and would do anything to opt out of them.

There are certain foods that help to not only prevent male genital odor or vaginal odor but go the extra mile of making them smell and even taste good, says some dumb guest blog article writer with a  Phd in some dumb course no one reads anymore. Think I.T beyotches

Just like foods that make you horny(red wine, water melon and pomengranutes), or foods that make you fat (diet soda, junk foods)or skinny(celery), or foods that improve skin tone(carrots, spinach, almonds)  or foods that make you poop (juices,legumes and vegetables)and even foods that make you dumb (sugar, pizza and junk food), there are also foods that make the male genital smell nice and eliminate male genital odor.

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1. Water: This is very esssential, nothing less than   8 glasses per day, even in winter. Water rids the body of toxins and harmful bacteria that result in male genital odor. 

2.Pineapple: The Kardashians were right for once, pineapple contains a chemical called Bromelain which helps cure urinary tract infection  and make the genitals smell good.

3. Watermelon, celery, citrus fruits,red grapes. cranberries and apples.

4. Yogurts: Yogurt contains lactobacillus which helps to regulate the pH of the body. With a balanced body pH, odors would be eliminated.

5. Baking soda and White vinegar: A table spoon of baking soda in a glass of warm water would do mighty works.

Foods that make you fart continously and have smelling pee would increase male genital odor. Once taken, you have to balance out with the foods mentioned above. Smoking, would improve male genital odor, it just does.

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Male Genital Enlargement.

Where is my junk?

Jack never told anyone why he found it very difficult to use the urinal , at 14 , he was so  uncomfortable with his penis size and it’s was beginning to affect his self-esteem., it all started when he saw that of a friend  who was slightly older and bigger. It didn't help matters that  pop culture  seems to  always talk about it being  very big to be acceptable

. “There’s a monster in my pants

And it does a nasty dance

When it moves in and out

Everybody starts to shout”

She want the big bamboo, always long 

The big bamboo grows so bold and strong

The big bamboo stands so straight and tall 

The big bamboo pleases one and all 

No  one seems  to understand and  he couldn't tell anyone about it. This has not really helped  his confidence in dealing with other people especially the opposite sex.  He was determined to do something about it, the best place to go however was the internet , he went through tons and tons of male genital enlargement sites and products looking  for the right one  to give a boast  to his penis size.
 Penis size is one major issue that teen males worry about , the same way girls worry over their looks  is the same way guys worry over their penis  size, and 90% of teenage males are not satisfied with their size. This size craze  gradually grows with them to their early 20s but it starts in the teenage years. The need for male genital enlargement then becomes so poignant, this is further fueled by teens who have at one time or the other stumbled on pornography and have seen the males  with mighty out of this world junks  thrusting their partners away.

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. The  average size of a penis according to Dr OZ is just about 5 inches when erect and this transcends to about 3 inches flaccid. The size of a penis has absolutely nothing to do with sexual satisfaction or pleasure. During puberty, the penis size is the last to change and it changes gradually, secondly the penis always looks small from your eye angle just the way your feet look smaller than it actually is. The actual size needed for sexual satisfaction of a partner is just about 3 inches, it is more important to know how to use what you have than having something in abundance. The penis also grows larger as you grow, this might not be as much as you want it but it does.

Male genital enlargement is however an option. Male genital enlargement options include  natural hands exercise called jelqing, pills, cream, pumps  and surgery. Pills have been known in most cases to cause a lot of side effect such as migraine with little result. Creams on the other hand gives a slow and steady male genital enlargement .Pumps have been often regarded as a waste of time and energy. Surgery, which gives the best result is rather too expensive unless you are in Cuba where it is reportedly free. “Male genital enlargement  products are now increasingly  being used by teenagers now”, says  a report which tracks the ages of buyers.

Before you go about investing in your penis , you need to know that nobody has ever married a man for the size of his junk, it takes more than a big dick to make a man. You should not be worried about the size of your junk but instead be courteous of what you eat and your habits to ensure that you are in great shape and lose belly fat. But if you are in great shape and the Wong isn’t then it might just need a little bit of assistance.

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Fathers' Day Gift Ideas

Father’s day is just around the corner and if you have a father, then you should do something about it. Even if your father is in jail , in the arms of another woman or on the streets slinging crack. It would be nice to do something nice, to show that you are a better person. For some, their fathers have been men who did not birth them but  have nurtured them to maturity. These men are  adopted fathers because indeed,that’s all that is needed in a father , not necessarily the seed. Here are father’s day gift ideas.

1. WARDROBE MAKEOVER:

He might need a new haircut too

  According to offer.com, this ranks as the highest father’s day gift idea based on what fathers’ were looking forward to receiving for father’s day. Who would have thought that dad is really looking forward to  new sets of underwears ,shirts , pants and a new tie? Socks, cufflinks , shoes and wrist watch should also be included in that list. If offer.com is right then, your father would appreciate this gift, especially if he has a corporate job or dresses like a gentleman. Keep the colours simple, white, blue , brown  shirts and black pants should do the trick. You might also want to get him boxers , so he can finally lay those old tired front fly briefs to rest.

2. TOOLS: 

If your father is a hands on person, then a new fancy set of tool box would be a perfect gift, if you actually get exactly what he needs, at the time. If your father has baby hands and can only open a door with it’s handle then, don’t waste a dime on this, he would most likely give It out.

Don't buy a screwdriver for this dad

3. ELECTRONICS AND COMPUTER GADGETS:

 A new flat screen television, an Ipad, an iPhone  or some other very cool Samsung  products would make a nice father’s day gift. You might also opt for apps that make life much easier like proshow web and ihandy level for tech savvy fathers and weber’s on the grill for dads that love to grill or better still, fitbit wireless device to get rid of that annoying beer belly of his.

4. PLAN A DINNER: 

Have a big dinner at your father’s house, have some of his friends and family come over and read father’s day poems that you must have copied from the internet while everyone is listening, talk about his strengths and God help you his weakness. Enough of that, it’s not his birthday anyway. If your dad smiles, he’s probably smiling cause he knows the site you copied the poems from. One more thing, if he has grand kids and they are a riot, keep them at home or leave them with the fat lady across your street. If the lady across your street is a blonde , sexy chic then you must be on a reality show.

The kids are safe with this lady.

5. PLAN A FAMILY OUTING: 

Go out, watch a soccer game, go to the indoor sport halls, play golf, play lawn tennis, play video games, pick games in which you can beat the shit out of him and say , "father, it’s so nice to play with you". If your dad is or was a pro- athlete or just athletic in nature and you are not, this might be a bad idea. Copy that jaden smith!.

6. AUTOMOBILE:

 Fathers love their cars, they like them classy, durable, strong and fast. If you can afford it, then why not, buy your father a good car. He would be so glad you did.

7. INTELLECTUAL  MATERIALS:

  A classical book like Tom Jones or health books like those that teach how to prevent aging and live right  or set of DVDs of classical movies is a very good father’s day gift.  If you are tempted to buy him a high brand of whiskey or some very strong wine, resist the temptation, go ahead and do so. This is one thing you are definitely going to get right.

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8. COSMETIC SURGERY: 

This sounds odd, but it’s not what you are thinking. Laser hair removal , if your father is a hairy mess or Hair transplant for baldness, Laser tattoo removal , if your father’s skull tattoo is beginning to embarrass everyone  and laser resurfacing should be the limit. If you want your father looking like bruce jenner, or wayne newton then you can also include a brow lift, nose job, skin bleaching, botox, lip injections, butt lift, liposuction, chest and abs implant and hair extensions. Your dad would thank you later, when he gets a reality show. On the other hand, you could get him a nice brand of cologne and skin care products designed for men  and some male genital freshening products.

This could be your dad

9. LETTER WRITING: Text messages, letter of gratitude and appreciation or even phone calls are one of the cheapest set of father’s day gifts , they cut to the chase and leave an impression. There are only four occasions where you should write a letter or send a text for father’s day.

1. You are broke and your dad lives miles away

2. Your dad is  in jail and you don’t want to go for visitations

3. Your dad is dead and so you would read the letter on his grave

4. Your letter would be so good, it would make front page on yahoo, reddit or funny or die.

10. FATHER’S DAY CRAP GIFTS :
 There are a lot of  items on the internet that you can buy at highly discounted prices if you know where to look, shirts that say "you are the best dad in the world", mugs, pens, balloons, alarms clocks, a whole lot. You would definitely find something that you can buy as a father’s day gift on online stores.

      

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Why People behave the way they do.

Why do people behave the way they do? Why won’t they?

The only thing that made sense to me was the music lesson after school. Music had been kicked out of the curriculum and moved to the period immediately after the closing school bell rings. The Music teacher, Frank, had started taking vocational studies during the school period. The humming and vocal ramblings always gave my memory the perfect blur and it made perfect sense to play the instruments the way you felt and listen to it produce the sound that it did.

Learning the guitar was far better than learning how molecules are formed or how a car functions, how to interchange between the accelerator and the brake without the car jerking, the guitar never jerked, it played several notes but never jerked. And when you pulled, it made good music or annoying noise.”

You had to fall in love with the melody of the song and play them like you wrote them. Pull the strings to play the root note of each chord, then pull the stings to play the first two then three notes of each scale.

But that is before you had learnt how to tune a guitar.

“why do people behave the way they do?”

“You sneaked out of the house with a boy? Papa yelled at Sharon

“So you know how old that boy is?” he didn’t wait for a reply.

“You are always acting like your deranged mother”,

 “That left you and your brother with me and left with another man”.

And he kept on pulling till the hair gave way and she cried loudly.

She wasn’t going to get attention anymore, the beauty left with each strand and this wasn’t the first time but, this was the beginning of a wrong pull.

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“David, your notes are not coming out clearly” Frank noted

“Check your hands, you are pulling wrongly”, he commented

“You wicked bastard!” Sharon yelled

“You wanna make me as miserable as you are”,

“Living in this dung hill, listening to your stupid ranting about how the government doesn’t care for you?”

“The government doesn’t care for you because you don’t care for the government”. She barked.

“And you know why mother left you, the same reason why I’m leaving you”.

“You are a fool!”.

He groaned loudly and made for her direction with his fist tied

But it stayed that way with blood gushing out of his left ear and his body still.

“why do people behave the way they do?

Sharon only comes home in the afternoon for a change of clothes and a decent bath.

She is always at the cheetahs on Western Avenue showing off her goodies.

 The gust and the charisma to do it she had gathered from the multiple hairs that had been pulled out of her head.

She was perfectly out of tune now as a man frantically pulled at her panties till it snapped.

“You idiot!” she muttered with a dry slap across his face.

And then his face changed, his smile disappeared like a lost tune and then he made for her.

But she had been pulled out of tune and it was not the alcohol. There was soon blood on the dance floor.

“Keep your hands on the strings” Frank told us

“If you pull the strings wrongly you are gonna get an awful sound”

“And we don’t wanna hear false tunes because one false note and the melody is gone. So pull gently and pull long.

Why do people behave the way they do? Why won’t they? Do we still need to wonder?

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