Sexting

Sexting 101

"i would show you mine , if you show me yours"

The word Sexting was coined from the words  “sex” and “texting”. Sexting involves the transfer via phone of sexually suggestive text messages, audio sounds, MMs and selfies usually between two lovers who may or may not be in the same location. It is also known as cyber flirting. Sexting can be a very good form of foreplay between lovers who are about to meet each other . Sexting however requires creativity. Both parties have to be on the same page and understand one another. It’s mostly dirty words, or like Hindus say, “gandi baat” and sexual pictures of oneself

Rules to Sexting

Keep it Short

Texts should be brief, mysterious and tantalizing; this will keep your partners imaginative juice flowing and leave them wanting more..

Go Hard or Go Home

The beauty of sexting is that you can live out your fantasies in words without any fear or judgment except you are sexting with a prude or just about anybody who gets irritated by dirty talk, so go hard. The urban dictionary would help you with words to use, as conventional words would kill the mood. Instead of saying, “ that tie you are wearing, let’s use it tonight”, you can say. “I hope that tie of yours is strong enough to hold my ass in the air why you grill me from behind”. Safe the emoticons for “get well soon” messages, except you download sexually suggestive emoticons. LOL is as dumb as it looks and sounds, this is not preschool. Go hard, nobody is going to get pregnant.

Headless Pictures Keeps everything safe

A selfie would be a very good initiator of sexting but if you ever intend to run for Mayor of New York or any political position for that matter in any country in the world , and you happen to be sexting with someone other than your spouse, then you should keep your pictures headless. As a rule, even if you are sexting with someone who you might break up with, then except you live in California, you should keep your pictures headless to prevent revenge picture leak. A sexting picture is just as scandalous as a sextape if it gets into the wrong hands with your face in it. Take your best features with an app like snap chat that deletes the picture after it is received and viewed to keep things safe. Tattoos would always give you away, so be careful to exclude tattoos from  your pictures and it would be nice to slap some filters over it before sending ,so it turns on and not off. Deleting the photos off your phone would also prevent any form of embarrassment in case of a possible phone hack or theft. Ensure that everything in the room is not taken and the ones that are should look good and compliment the selfie. Sexting should be fun , use a good sexting phoneand take quality pictures.

This Man  is a Judge in Detroit.

Be Sure you are sexting the right person.

The worst thing that can happen to anyone sexting is to sext the wrong person. It is very embarrassing and can even lead to grave consequences, like firing, ostracizing and what not. Don’t sext with a phone on which you group chat all the time, be sure of what you are doing and be sober while doing it.

Keep it between us

Sharing photos or text messages used in sexting is wrong except you are using it in court to nail a bastard. Same as sexting with multiple people at the same time, if you can do it well without any mistakes (which rarely happens ) then why not? Otherwise stick to one.

"I am not wearing any underwear"

Sexting is every where , 15 percent of adult phones owners received a sext and 6 percent sent one by spring 2012 in America alone.

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